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Chris Knipp
12-21-2010, 04:19 PM
John Cameron Mitchell: RABBIT HOLE (2010)
Review by Chris Knipp

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NICOLE KIDMAN AND MILES TELLER IN RABBIT HOLE

The bravery of simply going on

Based on a play by David Lindsay-Abaire that received five Tony Award nominations and the 2007 Pulitzer Prize for drama, Rabbit Hole is an elegant, understated film that explores with nuance and humor the lives of a loving couple eight months after a terrible tragedy -- the accidental death of their young son, Danny. Howie (Aaron Eckhart) and Becca (Nicole Kidman) are a handsome pair with a big house on the water. He has a good job and is a power squash player. She used to work at Sotheby's auction house in Manhattan but now spends her time at home. Both are ridden with guilt, anger, sadness, and the burden of memories they cling to even while knowing they must move on if they are to survive. Like T.S. Eliot's The Cocktail Party, Rabbit Hole depicts protagonists whose triumph and bravery is merely to continue living ordinary lives when that has seemed impossible. Edward and Lavinia, at the end of Eliot's play, simply give a cocktail party. Howie and Becca end by giving a cook-out. In a brilliantly simple final sequence, we see scenes from that cook-out, with Howie's earlier voice-over to Becca telling her what such an event will be like and how they will be able to get through it. When Becca tentatively takes Howie's hand as they sit in lawn chairs in the final shot, with their social evening on the lawn drawing to a close, it's tremendously moving. This is grownup, serious stuff, on a level with Assayas' Summer Hours. And it's obviously strong competition for the end-of-year drama awards in movies. It's such a poised, muted movie there's no grandstanding or sentimentalizing. But tears are shed, and you'll probably shed a few when you watch.

Rabbit Hole isn't a tract on the meaning of life or a manual on the grieving process. It instead focuses on things that happen, steps Howie and Becca take that gradually lead them to a new place. There are moments that are quirky and unusual and not without humor. Providing splendid performances, Kidman and Eckhart get impeccable backup the rest of the cast. Foremost among these is a profound Dianne Wiest as Becca's mother, Nat. With her, Becca moves from clashes toward communion. Becca snaps at Nat at first for comparing her grown brother's (Becca's uncle's) accidental death from a heroin overdose to the little boy's sudden demise. But Nat eventually can tell Becca about grieving from long experience. Becca reacts with anger at first with her sister, Izzy (Tammy Blanchard), whose arrest for a barroom fight and unexpected pregnancy arouse Becca's ire and disapproval. Eventually, Becca realizes the healthiest thing she can do is reach out to Izzy, and to her friends.

The husband and wife attend a grief support group, but Becca can't take it, lashing out at a man who mouths what she thinks is an empty religious cliché about angels. Howe keeps on going to the group alone, where he meets and begins getting stoned with Gaby (Sandra Oh, good as always). It seems he's going to escape into an extramarital relationship. Becca takes a different odd tack. She follows the teenage boy, Jason (a spectacularly poised Miles Teller), whose car killed her son. They have a kind of communion too -- and a comic book Jason is creating offers hints at worlds beyond, scientifically conceived. A dog that played a part in the accident gets retrieved from Nat's house by Howie.

Without having seen the play one can see both how it could be a terrific one, and yet the film offers more. It not only expands some characters like the grieving group, and provides more information about the boy Jason, the camera often providing intimacy. The film, following Lindsay-Abaire's adaptatin of his own play, also makes the difficulty of dealing with loss more vivid, specific, physical, and heartrending by showing us the drawings, the toddler clothes, the toys that the couple have to decide what to do with. They house itself becomes a painful reminder to them. Becca and Howie both admit the boy's fingerprints are all over it. But by the end of the movie, their cookout has become a reality. They've survived.

That's all that happens, really. But the beauty of Rabbit Hole is in its details and moments, some of them not in the play at all, a house-showing to potential buyers gone wrong, a disastrous erasure on an iPhone, a surprise encounter in the library, a cake on a back seat. Though Eckhart has some scenes of violent anger and Kidman does her share of uncontrollable sobbing, both actors show opposite emotions as well, while epitomizing control and coolness (as they both, as actors, typically do), thus conveying a concise sense of the effort to avoid collapse and keep going on.

This is a sad story but also a hopeful one, which is signaled by its particularity, its little touches of unexpected imagination (like the teenager's comic book), and its startling humor. The latter may help explain why a director of campy, gay, and overtly sexual stuff (Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Shortbus), with this terrific cast, was a good match for Rabbit Hole after all.

The Rabbit Hole debuted at Toronto, opened in France October 27, opens in the US December 17.

tabuno
01-02-2011, 08:36 PM
Loved the commentary, though perhaps too revealing. It would be nice to have some word about spoilers, but maybe that's not what this website really needs, I could have been smarter than that. But couldn't resist not reading Chris and his observations. Been waiting for months and months to see this one.

Chris Knipp
01-02-2011, 09:42 PM
I think you will like it. It may not be in my best list, not yet anyway, but it would be a strong runner-up to the top ten American dramatic features of the year if not in that list. I think it is going to have a slow roll-out release.

tabuno
01-02-2011, 09:44 PM
While I haven't personally experienced death as depicted in this movie, as a Board of Director of the Utah Chapter of Parents of Murdered Children, Inc., I am very curious how this movie handles death of a child and its impact on the parents.

Chris Knipp
01-02-2011, 09:56 PM
My parents witnessed the death of my little brother, and I witnessed it too. But everybody must deal with death and loss.

Howard Schumann
01-10-2011, 03:24 PM
RABBIT HOLE

Directed by John Cameron Mitchell, U.S., (2010), 91 minutes

“In this world of change naught which comes stays and naught which goes is lost” – Anne Sophie Swetchine

When someone dies unexpectedly, the news is always shocking and saddening, especially for those who know the individual personally. When a young child dies, however, the tragedy of the event for the family is beyond anyone’s capacity to even imagine. Based on a script by David Lindsay-Abaire from his Pulitzer Prize-winning play of the same name, John Cameron Mitchell’s Rabbit Hole depicts the grief of a young couple, Becca (Nicole Kidman) and her husband Howie (Aaron Eckhart) after their four-year old son Danny is killed by a teenage driver when he runs into the street chasing his dog.

Though Becca and Howie are materially comfortable and live in an upper class suburban home, they are not spared from tragedy, an equal-opportunity antagonist that does not care about economic circumstances. The film begins eight months after Danny’s death as the grieving parents are struggling to create some degree of a new normalcy. Despite their earnest efforts, however, it is a precipitous mountain to climb. Each copes with their loss differently but both are overwhelmed by the seeming meaninglessness of the tragedy. God must be a “sadistic prick”, bemoans Becca. Howie buries himself at work while, at home in his own quiet space, he constantly replays a video of Danny that he captured on his cell phone. Becca spends time working in her garden, baking, and spending time with her younger sister Izzy (Tammy Blanchard) who has become pregnant by an itinerant musician.

Becca and Howie agree to attend a group therapy but the group dynamics are a shock to Becca. She calls a group member, Gaby (Sandra Oh), a “professional wallower” when she tells her that she has been attending the sessions for eight years. When another participant says that God took their daughter because he needed another angel, Becca angrily asks why a supposedly omnipotent God could not have simply created an angel if he needed one. After she refuses to attend any more sessions, Becca and Howie begin to drift even further apart, each finding an external outlet to channel their hurt.

Howie smokes marijuana with Gaby whose husband has just left her but their relationship ends when Howie tells her that he still loves his wife. In her need to keep Danny close to her, Becca spends time with Jason (Miles Teller), the teenage boy who was behind the wheel when Danny was killed. Trying to make some sense of the tragedy, they talk about the possibility of parallel universes, but the sadness of what might have been is etched on Becca’s face. She also struggles with her perception of the "insensitivity" of her mother (Dianne Weist) when she compares Danny’s death to the death of her thirty-year-old son, (Becca’s brother) who was a heroin addict. In a moving scene, her mother says from the depth of her heart, “….but he was still my son”. Deeply felt is the sense that the cause of the death of a child is pallid compared to the actual reality of the death.

The parent’s relationship threatens to come further apart when Howie blames his wife for wanting to remove any trace of Danny from the house after she begins to get rid of Danny’s clothes and toys and accuses Becca of erasing the video of Danny that he kept on his cell phone. Rabbit Hole is a poignant and tastefully made film that rejects audience manipulation and melodrama. Miles Teller as the awkward, remorseful Jason is one of the standout performers in a superb cast that includes Oscar-worthy work by Kidman and Dianne Weist. The director keeps emotions under control, perhaps more than is necessary, however, and the film’s unwillingness to take risks somewhat dilutes its power.

Whatever it’s flaws, Rabbit Hole is an affecting look at two deeply wounded individuals fighting a long and difficult battle to stay afloat and begin life anew. When Becca asks of Howie, “What next?” he says that we can go to the toy store and buy the game Candyland for their niece. After a moment of silence, Becca asks, “Then what?” There is no answer but there is a hint of hope. Ultimately, perhaps all there is to do may be, in John Ruskin’s phrase, “to watch the corn grow, and the blossoms set; to draw hard breath over ploughshare or spade; to read, to think, to love, to hope, to pray and, in the words of Elizabeth Lesser, “to relax into the mystery of not knowing. And then to come into a peaceful knowing – a faithful wisdom that surpasses control and certainty.”

GRADE: A-

Chris Knipp
01-10-2011, 04:02 PM
I agree with your assessment of the material and the direction. it's excellent, and Weist is the emotional highlight, though the two main actors do well. Kidman's held-back style works impressively, but the director might have held things back a bit too much and there is some little thing lacking that keesps this from being a great movie. It is grown-up stuff and has a lot of class, and I like that it follows the original play in not in any way depicting the accident, which would be so typical of the lack of restraint in American movies today who have to provide flashbacks to everything instead of perceiving memories through the actors themselves.

Chris Knipp
01-10-2011, 04:05 PM
I agree with your assessment of the material and the direction. it's excellent, and Weist is the emotional highlight, though the two main actors do well, as is the boy, and as always, Sandra Oh. Kidman's held-back style works impressively, but the director might have held things back a bit too much overall himself as you suggest, and there is some little thing lacking that keeps this from being a truly great movie, but it remains one of the best serious dramatic features of the year.. It is grown-up stuff and has a lot of class, and I like that it follows the original play in not in any way depicting the accident, which would be so typical of the lack of restraint in American movies today who have to provide flashbacks to everything instead of perceiving memories through the actors themselves.